Want her to go home with you? - Make her Laugh!

What makes us attractive? What attracts us? Have you ever noticed that quite often the funny guy is the one to get the girl?

Have you ever been interested in a very attractive person only to find that you've lost interest because they just aren't fun to be with? And then you meet someone who is not particularly physically attractive but has a wonderful personality and are great fun to be with. That person becomes more and more physically attractive to you because of their personality, their energy and spirit - and 9 times out of 10 a sense of humor is at the root of that enjoyable personality. I'll take a man that makes me laugh every time over a great looking guy.

Laughter is so important in life. It is an indication of intelligence, life force, confidence, and how you relate to other people. Laughter is critically important in love whether it is in the attraction of love or the maintenance of love.

Learn to laugh at yourself. So many people are unable to laugh at themselves because of their insecurities and fears. Lighten up! We all make mistakes.When we laugh at ourselves it indicates how much we are able to put into perspective what is important in life. A sense of joy creates an accepting atmosphere that draws people in.

Laughter can be an aphrodisiac. It creates an intimate atmosphere, a moment to be remembered. It implies there is more, more, more to me - just wait until you get to know me.

A sense of humor gives a guy the absolutely perfect thing to say to break the ice or start up a conversation - and it's not some elaborate canned line. It is just a unique spin on how to communicate something simple that is going on at the moment. A sense of humor is different from sarcasm or poking fun. I'm talking about a man that appreciates his life, has fun and sees what is around him through accepting, joyous eyes. Women want to be surrounded by that energy.

So, how do you develop a sense of humor that will help your relationship?

1. Lighten up about yourself! Really see yourself in a way that acknowledges how goofy you are about certain things - we all are. Get a chuckle out of yourself. This will open up a whole new way of being and that will be communicated as a positive spin on life. That is attractive.
2. Notice the world around you - learn to get a chuckle from that also. See your life through new eyes. There is just so much we have control of in life so learning how to enjoy the ride, trusting that you're going to land on your feet,makes others want to take the ride with you.
3. When you don't take yourself so seriously you will be able to approach a woman understanding it isn't necessary to have something brilliant to say. And, if you don't get a good response - then chuckle about that too - and move on. Confidence is very attractive to women.
4. Smile - smile - smile - have fun. Include others in that fun and women will love to be around you.

You don't need to be great at delivering a punch line. A good sense of humor is about a way of perceiving yourself and the world around you - not about jokes. YOU are the best comic you know. Your life , the stories of your life and what is going on in your life at this moment the funniest material around. If you can't see that, you've got work to do to lighten up!

Want to know how to attract a woman? Make her laugh!